2 - The Loving Person
Basic Info
| Core Fear | Being unwanted, unworthy of being loved |
|---|---|
| Core Desire | To feel loved |
| Paradigm | Needs |
| Body Center | Heart |
| Social Style | Compliant |
| Problem Solving Style | Optimist |
| Emotional Need | Attention |
| Emotional Issues | Shame, Sadness |
| Instintict | Social Relationships (Who am I with?) |
| Dysfunction | Loneliness |
| Vulnerabilities | Rejection, isolation, not appreciated |
| Appealing Things | Relational |
| Virtue | Love |
| Vice | Pride |
| Make The World... | more loving |
| Blind Spot | What do I need? |
Relations to Other Numbers
| Wings | |
|---|---|
| During stress, tends towards | 8 |
| During growth, tends towards | 4 |
Sayings
| "A friend in need is a friend indeed" |
| "Pay it forward" |
| "You can have everything you want in life if you just help enough people get what they want" |
Virtuous Ideals
| "Freedom means living within the natural laws" |
| "Love your neighbor as yourself" |
| "If you teach a man to fish, you feed him for a lifetime" |
Proficiencies
| Humility |
| Acceptance of one's self |
| Sensitive to others' needs and feelings |
| Approachable |
| Generous affirmation and support of others |
| No one is forgotten |
Character Arc
1. I am Helpful
2. Repression
3. Own Needs
4. Love
What is each step of the Character Arc called?
- Counterfeit Virtue (Mask)
- Defense Mechanism
- Area of Avoidance
- Genuine Virtue
