4 - The Original Person
Basic Info
| Core Fear | That they have no identity or personal significance |
|---|---|
| Core Desire | To find themselves and their significance (to create an identity) |
| Paradigm | Ordinariness |
| Body Center | Heart |
| Social Style | Withdrawn |
| Problem Solving Style | Reactive |
| Emotional Need | Attention |
| Emotional Issues | Shame, Sadness |
| Instintict | Social Relationships (Who am I with?) |
| Dysfunction | Loneliness |
| Vulnerabilities | Left out, inauthentic, abandoned |
| Appealing Things | Beautiful |
| Virtue | Originality |
| Vice | Envy |
| Make The World... | more beautiful |
| Blind Spot | What is actually here and now? |
Relations to Other Numbers
| Wings | |
|---|---|
| During stress, tends towards | 2 |
| During growth, tends towards | 1 |
Sayings
| "Stop and smell the roses" |
| "Absense makes the heart grow fonder" |
| "The course of true love never did run smooth" |
| "Don't cast your pearls before swine" |
| "In the world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what you want and the other is getting it." |
Virtuous Ideals
| "I am already original" |
| "I belong in this world" |
| "Beauty alone is lasting" |
Proficiencies
| Show sensitivity, appreciation, respect |
| Intuitive aesthetic sense |
| Grace & beauty |
| Attuned to mood of others |
| Active imagination |
Character Arc
1. I am Special
2. Introjection
3. Ordinariness
4. Originality
What is each step of the Character Arc called?
- Counterfeit Virtue (Mask)
- Defense Mechanism
- Area of Avoidance
- Genuine Virtue
