3 - The Effective Person
Basic Info
Core Fear | Being worthless |
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Core Desire | To feel valuable and worthwhile |
Paradigm | Failure |
Body Center | Heart |
Social Style | Assertive |
Problem Solving Style | Competency |
Emotional Need | Attention |
Emotional Issues | Shame, Sadness |
Instintict | Social Relationships (Who am I with?) |
Dysfunction | Loneliness |
Vulnerabilities | Failure, rejection, not admired |
Appealing Things | Operational |
Virtue | Efficacy |
Vice | Vanity |
Make The World... | more efficient |
Blind Spot | How do others feel? |
Relations to Other Numbers
Wings | |
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During stress, tends towards | 9 |
During growth, tends towards | 6 |
Sayings
"Put your best foot forward" |
"Try, try again" |
"The show must go on" |
"Fake it 'til you make it" |
"Where there's a will, there's a way" |
"The end justifies the means" |
"Work smarter not harder" |
Virtuous Ideals
"The universe is naturally efficient. It works" |
"You are most effective when you operate within these universal laws" |
"In the face of challenge and adversity, keep moving toward your goal" |
Proficiencies
Organizational ability |
Get things done & on time |
Good at motivating others |
Marketing oneself |
Effective manager |
Character Arc
1. I am Successful
2. Identification
3. Failure
4. Efficacy
What is each step of the Character Arc called?
- Counterfeit Virtue (Mask)
- Defense Mechanism
- Area of Avoidance
- Genuine Virtue