3 - The Effective Person
Basic Info
| Core Fear | Being worthless |
|---|---|
| Core Desire | To feel valuable and worthwhile |
| Paradigm | Failure |
| Body Center | Heart |
| Social Style | Assertive |
| Problem Solving Style | Competency |
| Emotional Need | Attention |
| Emotional Issues | Shame, Sadness |
| Instintict | Social Relationships (Who am I with?) |
| Dysfunction | Loneliness |
| Vulnerabilities | Failure, rejection, not admired |
| Appealing Things | Operational |
| Virtue | Efficacy |
| Vice | Vanity |
| Make The World... | more efficient |
| Blind Spot | How do others feel? |
Relations to Other Numbers
| Wings | |
|---|---|
| During stress, tends towards | 9 |
| During growth, tends towards | 6 |
Sayings
| "Put your best foot forward" |
| "Try, try again" |
| "The show must go on" |
| "Fake it 'til you make it" |
| "Where there's a will, there's a way" |
| "The end justifies the means" |
| "Work smarter not harder" |
Virtuous Ideals
| "The universe is naturally efficient. It works" |
| "You are most effective when you operate within these universal laws" |
| "In the face of challenge and adversity, keep moving toward your goal" |
Proficiencies
| Organizational ability |
| Get things done & on time |
| Good at motivating others |
| Marketing oneself |
| Effective manager |
Character Arc
1. I am Successful
2. Identification
3. Failure
4. Efficacy
What is each step of the Character Arc called?
- Counterfeit Virtue (Mask)
- Defense Mechanism
- Area of Avoidance
- Genuine Virtue
